Q8 Cuteberry

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

Girls.. Girls.. Girls..

I just hang up after a long dramatic conversation with my friend a.k.a Drama Queen... We, girls, are smart and sharp. The thing is, we dont act like it. We know more than we give ourselves credit for. But girls are girls and boys are boys.. We are different and we are supposed to be different. Once we, girls, understand and accept that, we would lead a happier life..

He loves you. He cares for you. Dont be greedy. Dont ask for more. Dont push it. Dont be extra sensitive. Let him take it step by step. Let him embrace the idea of you being together forever. If he wants it, he'll go for it in a heart-beat. Don't hint about it. Don't talk about it. Once you do, Opsyyyy.. You scare him away. Do you want that?! Ahhhhhhhhhhh-Nope.. So, please girls memorize this simple equation.. and UNDERSTAND IT GODDAMIT!


Let's see the final result of bringing up the "M word" by us, girls...

M = Marriage = Zawaj (in arabic) = starts with a 'Z'
Z= end of alphabetic order and used to describe the 'end' in many situations

so, we get to conclude that:

M = Z = END of your relationship

So, to my friend and to all girls, If you like your guy.. If you love your guy.. Give him the time you think he needs. If the time is up and he didnt get to step forward. Then the chances are,HE'LL NEVER WILL.. Bringing up the subject will only make it worse (bad break-up).. So, please girls Understand the idea and accept it. Move on! :)


Last thought: M = Z = END of your relationship <--- a great way to break-up with someone if this is what you are looking for *evil grin* Neyaha ha ha ;)

20 Comments:

  • At 10:58 AM, Blogger SpiKeY said…

    how come i never took that in my math course at uni :P....

    although i disagree with u....guys do want to get married and they r not scared...well maybe some of them..( trying to be optimistic )

     
  • At 11:34 AM, Blogger Mini Я. said…

    Your tips won't work with Kuwaiti men. They're just too plain dumb to understand.

    Well most of them...well..the majority.

     
  • At 11:37 AM, Blogger Mini Я. said…

    oh and hi..nice blog :)

     
  • At 11:56 AM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    spikey:
    I know guys want to get married, but if the girl mentioned it first. Then they go "Vroooooooooooooooooooom Beep beep" *giggles*

    mini R:
    wont work? it worked with three of my female friends ;) I am their Oprah, their Dr.Phil or whatever u wanna name it :P ohhh and hiii *waves*

     
  • At 12:37 PM, Blogger Fonzy said…

    I dont EVER want to get married:)

     
  • At 12:53 PM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    fonzy:
    I am expecting to get ALOT of similar answers from men... Come on guys.. repeat after fonzy hehehe :P

     
  • At 1:27 PM, Blogger 15/09 said…

    i think it should be cleared up min awal shay, ya3ni if this relationship was just a have fun while it lasted thing or a it might lead to the M word relationship, hmmmmm guys dnt like hints, we like honesty and getting to the point

     
  • At 1:51 PM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    the1509:
    I don't think one can identify a relationship at first shot. It needs to evolve and time will reveal what its really about. After getting to know eachother and after a given time, one should know whether its lasting or not. I love honesty, but I still believe that a girl should NOT bring up the M word first :)

     
  • At 2:11 PM, Blogger Purgatory said…

    "We, girls, are smart and sharp"

    What have you been smoking when you wrote this?

     
  • At 2:16 PM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    purg:
    We, girls, are smart enough not to answer such question heheh :P

     
  • At 4:09 PM, Blogger Shopaholic Q8eya said…

    Purg, to your surprise some of us are really smart ;P

     
  • At 7:20 PM, Blogger Purgatory said…

    Yah and it takes multiple girls to answer/handle me, what does that say about you chicks?

     
  • At 7:21 PM, Blogger Purgatory said…

    and Shopa, do not spoil cuteberry.

     
  • At 7:31 PM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    Shopa:
    Show him sistaaaaa ;)

    Purg:
    Dont be hatin` :P

     
  • At 10:07 PM, Blogger Purgatory said…

    I do not hate, I enjoy

     
  • At 11:28 PM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    purg:
    Ohhh By all means, Enjoy ;)

     
  • At 3:08 AM, Blogger Bella Color said…

    What u wrote might work in the US but not Q8... We go by different rules...

    If u r luv some1 from the opposite sex, they should understand clearly that u have only one intention which is marriage. If he's not ready, then leave him, cuz he's a playa!!!!

     
  • At 8:49 AM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    bella color:
    Ohhh I beg to differ. These rules are specially made for Kuwait, with all the love.

    You see, I agree with you.. However, every guy can say he wants marriage, especially that they know its the way to gets the girl's attention, its her weakest point. But not every guy can/want to keep that "promise". If he promised, dont push him and dont pressure him, instead give him the time he needed, as he claimed. Time will reveal his real intentions. If, by then, he didnt do it, then he'll never do it. End of Story :)

     
  • At 4:10 PM, Blogger Twix said…

    Im a guy and the last thing i want to hear a girl tell me is zawaj. Walla il 3athem ill start sweating and panicing. Let us ask u.. dont pressure us into anything.. plz.

     
  • At 10:41 PM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    abdulla:
    Dont sweat it ;) I agree..

     

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