Q8 Cuteberry

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

What would you do if .....

There are some sticky icky situations that I am either a part of, or been asked for advice for. The usual question is "What would you do if..". So here goes:

What would you do if.......
  • Your best friend says it's absolutely OK to steal others' BF/husband?
  • Your BF keeps hinting that he is broke and needs some $$? (I say break up with that cheap a$$ dude, but what would you do?)
  • Your co-worker keeps asking you out for dinner but in a joking manner?
  • Your love of your life tries to fix you up with someone?
  • Your boss keeps promising you this "onething" and it's always postponed?
  • Your cousin keeps changing between (being mean and selfish) and (being nice and caring)?
  • Your friend is nice, has a big heart and treats you well, BUT looks like a cheap hooker?
  • Some one you just met through a friend starts calling you every single morning just to say "Hi"?
  • Your not-so-close friend tries to be "best friends" with you, but you are not interested?
  • You met the person of your dreams, have their contact information, talked for a couple of times, but don't know how to get their "real" attention?

Last thought: The sms I got this morning: "El-youm eljaw mal ditching work o go gazzing! What do you think? Wanna do it? ;) " <-- So, what would you do IF you get that?

posted by Cuteberry @ 8:22 AM  

17 Comments:

  • At 10:40 AM, Blogger Fonzy said…

    1- then she is not ur best friend, she should guide u in the right path not encourage the wrong one
    2- if its been happening a lot and u feel he is using u, then break up with the cheap ass
    3- keep saying no in a joking way
    4- pretend ur interested but tell him ur taken at the moment, and if he asks who, say "a lady never tells" :)
    5- put ur foot down and tell him to stop bullshitting u
    6- stay away and contact her only when u have to. i hate mood swings
    7- be a friend and have a talk with her and sdvise her, just dont say she looks like a hooker
    8- dont pick up if its annoying u
    9- be polite but not too polite, it will take time but she will get the hint
    10- i thought ur love of ur life is trying to fix u up with someone else:) anyway, u will get his attention with time, just act normal and he will come to u

    hope my answers help:) good luck!

     

  • At 10:48 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    1- thats bullshit
    2-its her problem
    3- dont give them face and tell them to get the hell out
    4- not good I would not trust their taste
    5- either keep nagging abt it untill it happens ,,
    6- dump them ,, do really have time for cousins or ppl like that
    7- oh shit ,, thats alot of pressure being seen with her
    8- you have to wonder what they are after ,, be carefull
    9- keep showing them that your not interested
    10- cant help you here

    last thought

    if I to ditch I'll go to camp david

     

  • At 12:05 PM, Blogger The Stallion said…

    1) Ayshay! You must be kidding!
    2) LOL can't have a bf! :oP If it was my gf I'd be spoiling her anyways but if she asks for more money I'd give it to her but not on a regualar basis! She has to learn to get her own!
    3) Keep it as a joke!
    4) Sit down with her and talk to her! If you already broke up with her and you know for sure you can't have her back might as well go out with her friend cause your gf would know what you want and won't be telling you to go out with someone that wasn't good for you!
    5) Don't put your hopes up then! Most bosses tend to BS alot and do things to get what they want and not give it to others!
    6) Tell my cousin to come to me when he/she is nice and caring and if not then I would have to put them in place!
    7) Talk to her about it but don't force anything on her!
    8) Give her a chance and go out on a date unless something tells me not to! By something I mean intuition and not tradition! :oP
    9) Tell them out right! Don't have them waste thier time! Always ensure that people know who your best friend(s) are!
    10) If I was in that position I'd ask if it comes down to it but if I didn't have any contact with her then I wouldn't do anything! Wouldn't know how! :o(

    Last thought: I won't ditch! I can't ditch actually! Weahter isn't a reason! Either take a vacation even though it's for a day or go to work and wait till the day is over to go out!

     

  • At 12:55 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    The title of the post reminded me of that song by City High "What would you do?, if your son was at home crying all alone on the bedroom floor, cuz he's hungry
    and thee only way to feed him is ta sleep wit a manfor a little bit of money," i know, it has nothing to do with the post :/

    Anywayz, answering ur questions:
    1- Your Best Friend is a Bitch :(
    2- Tell him to get a job! and break up with the cheap ass
    3- Tell the co-worker that your to busy for them
    4- Inshallah wa7id yiswa ? ;)
    5- Bosses always promise stuff but they never go through with it :(
    6- Your cuz is one confused person :/ I suggest therapy
    7- It's the inside that matters :)
    8- then that person oviously has feelings for u
    9- well, if you start ignoring them then through time they will understand the hint
    10- Be patient and things will start showing itselves

    Itha tiswa il ditching then go ahead and have fun! You only live once :)

     

  • At 1:01 PM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    Ohhhhhhhhhhh Guys!!! You are amazing! You actually put an effort in answering each one of those. *GRIN*

    fonzy:
    LOL! Those situations are random, not all of those happened to me! *wink* and just so you won't be confused, I am FREE as a Bird! :P

    mosan mosan:
    Hmm it's either you are being "right to the point" or "really cranky" hmmm, honey, it's 1 day to the weekend, cheer up Mr.Cheers ;P

    the stallion:
    All, I can say is: "That's one lucky GF!" hehehehe
    Ohh and yeah, even when tempted I feel guilty when I ditch work, so I don't! :)

     

  • At 1:05 PM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    howahkan:
    LOL! I read "4.Inshallah wa7id yiswa?" and couldn't stop laughing! *giggles* Ohh you are soo adorable with those easy-goin` answers! heheheh

     

  • At 3:58 PM, Blogger Delicately Realistic said…

    I hate those situations!
    :/

     

  • At 6:04 PM, Blogger Baroque said…

    "Your love of your life tries to fix you up with someone?"

    SHIT!

     

  • At 2:23 AM, Blogger Peony said…

    1- i;ll steal hers & see how she feels ;p
    2- act deaf.. shino, im a bank?
    3- say yes, in a joking manner
    4- than he's not the love of your life..
    5- a7in layamn he get's that "onething" ;p
    6- ignore him/her.
    7- min ib3eed laaih ib3eed ;p
    8- ignore calls//
    9- ignore again ;p
    10- if its meant to be, than i would not have to get his real attention.. i would already have it;p

    11- akeed!!

     

  • At 8:32 AM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    delicately realistic:
    Doesn't everyone? :/ Sticky Icky icky :P

    baroque:
    Heheheh Double that! :P

    peony:
    Daaaaamn! Aren't you a little devil? :P

     

  • At 1:47 PM, Blogger Engineeroo said…

    1- sure she/he just want to tell you that your boy/girl friend is mine...

    2- if he really is... he will not not make hints... he will just tell you... dump that S***er...

    3- sure say yes and surprise him by bringing other co-workers... :)

    4- go ahead and date his best friend

    5- take it to the next level.. talk to HIS BOSS

    6- this is normal... live with it...

    7- do you mean look at you as a cheap hooker??? sorry did not understand the Q...

    8- tell him/her I have a boy/girl friend that just woke me up... so romantic ... lool

    9- ask her/ him a big favor and see if he/she will do it for you.. if yes then the are for real if not.. just ignor..

    10- just be ope with her/him. and ask her/ him if they are the right person for them

     

  • At 8:44 AM, Blogger Cuteberry said…

    engineeroo:
    For #7, She is nice but looks cheap, as the way she dresses and all.. Oh and I did talk to HIS BOSS, thanks for the advice ;)

    blue ice envy bis:
    Wow! You sure know what you want and you go after it.. Impressive ;)

     

  • At 11:31 PM, Blogger The Simper said…

    "4- Your love of your life tries to fix you up with someone?"

    then ur a loser ;) ;) it's either u have it.. or not..

     

  • At 12:48 PM, Blogger The Simper said…

    salamaaaaaaaaaaaaat.. where r u?

     

  • At 12:17 AM, Blogger Dr.Lost said…

    too much to answer.. too little time ;p

     

  • At 6:34 PM, Blogger Dr. BaDDooR said…

    1. I'd be very annoyed, cuz it's becoming an epidemic in this country. and i HATE the concept of cheating!
    2. If you know he's genuine fair enough. Otherwise dump him.
    3. I'd say he's shy to ask you out and get rejected. Accept it or push him off VERY nicely.
    4. I'd be shattered.
    5. Face him and ask for an exact date.
    6. I'd say tomato and tomatoe
    7. I'd do him/her the favour of telling him the truth
    8. I'd think the world of that person for doing such thing.
    9. Sticky situation!
    10. My advise: ask him/her out. What I'd do? I'd chicken out :P
    11. I'd have to decline, can't ditch the job I'm in.

     

  • At 2:14 PM, Blogger Spicy Pepper said…

    Cuteberry,
    Wainitch? Tara Masakhtee'haa ma3goola your still ditching and gazzing?, 3ad El Jaw Ma yisa3ed :P

     

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